The talking phase is a preview, not proof
Texting can be fun. It can also be fantasy. It is easy to build a version of someone in your head before you meet.
The longer you stay in that space, the harder it becomes to actually take the next step.
How people get stuck
Some people stall because they are busy. Some stall because they are uncertain. Some stall because they like attention more than connection.
Whatever the reason, you do not have to live there.
A clean way out
Pick a simple checkpoint. After a good conversation or two, propose a short call or low pressure meet.
If they avoid it repeatedly, that is your answer. Do not chase momentum that is not mutual.
How Found solves this
Found is built around momentum. The Message Wall prevents endless talking without progress.
Bridge Invites make the next step normal and structured instead of awkward.